Kinky Sex Ideas for Couples- Transform your Sex Life

kinky sex deas for couples

With all the talk of ’50 Shades’, there’s only been one thing on my mind! Here are my best kinky sex ideas for couples.

Beginner’s kinky sex ideas for couples

Eat food off each other. Try ice cream or yogurt to send them shivers of delight, then switch to hot melted chocolate. Make swirling motions with your tongue and watch their lips curl in ecstasy.

Try food sex, one of our kinky sex ideas for couples
Use role-play
to find an easier way to act out your sexual fantasies in the safety of another character. With a little practice, you’ll soon find your inner Tom Hardy or Jennifer Lawrence. Characters like the repairman, student and their teacher, or strangers meeting in a bar are an exciting place to start.

blindfold sex


Watch yourselves
have sex in a full-length mirror.

couple kissing in front of mirror


Discover all of your partner’s erogenous zones
. Often underappreciated are the inner thigh, spine, and elbows. For a more sensual touch, try caressing them with a vibrating intimate massager before moving on to the ultimate hot spots. For him, massage his perineum, located between the anus and balls, for even more pleasurable sex.

Risk getting caught. Have sex in a restaurant bathroom, or pleasure each other in the dark corner of a nightclub.

Tune in to pornography. Have some playing in the background while you get into each other, and turn up the volume to help inspire the mood.

Surprise them. Blindfold, then tease them with sensual touches where they don’t expect. A bullet vibrator makes it easy to target their multiple erogenous zones.

naked couple bed sex blindfolded


Bring the sex toys
. Try a dual action couple’s vibrator that has you grasping each close through hard releases of passion.

Rocks-Off Union couples vibrating cock ring and clitoral stimulator
Rocks-Off Union couples vibrating cock ring and clitoral stimulator


Discover the male g-spot
. Many straight men are experiencing some of the hardest, strongest, and most intimate sexual experiences of their lives thanks to prostate massage. Help them come around to the idea with some exciting beginner’s sex toys.

Go out in public. Take a vibrating remote control love egg out with you when you go to a restaurant, bar or on a shopping trip, and let your partner control the vibrations. You will work each other into a frenzy, ready to grab at each other the moment you get back through the door.

couple use vibrating love egg in a restaurant

Kinky sex ideas from the experts

Sex blogger sensation, Cara Sutra, offers this tantalising tip:

Reveal your secret fantasy: share a deep, dark fantasy with your partner. You know the type of fantasy I mean; the scenes which tantalise our imagination whether during masturbation or simply filthy daydreams. Revealing such intimate thoughts to your partner can be an incredibly intense experience, so make sure you’re somewhere comfortable, where you won’t be disturbed.

If the thought of describing your personal fantasy out loud is too scary, why not write it down? You could swap a hand-written note with each other for added romance points. After the revelation you might find the sizzling atmosphere means you just can’t keep your hands off each other…”

For sex tips, reviews of Rocks-Off sex toys and much more, visit carasutra.com.

cara_sutra_logo_black_and_red

Ultra-kinky sex ideas for couples

I’ve gone deep into my vault for these! If your inner deviant is already on the loose and hungry for more, why not try these even kinkier tips

Challenge your sexuality. Have sex with someone of the opposite sex while your partner watches.

Try BDSM. Flog them until they are gasping your name, relishing in the pain and punishment.

Master & Slave. One of you takes charge while the other obeys their every command. Start with simple demands:

• Lick my toes
• Show me your … (insert body part here)
• Touch yourself with sex toys

When you are both comfortable, go harder:

• Get down on your knees, and present your ass to me
• Bring me my belt in your mouth (followed by spanking)

Remember your safe word. If you plan to get kinky, it’s very important that you both know a special word to say if one of you wants to stop.

I hope these kinky sex ideas for couples have inspired you to take your sex life to the next level of intimacy, or to continue your kinky adventures. For more sexy tips and tricks, join our newsletter and check out my sex tips section!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *