There’s always space to spice up your sex life, trying new things, and experimenting with each other can improve your relationship and make things a little kinkier.
What would you like to do to your partner, or what would you like them to do to you?
Both write down your desires and pick out the hat for whats on the agenda for tonight, you may do them all, or maybe save some for a rainy day!
It’s usually a good thing to involve a pass or two, you’re not going to want to do everything your partner wants and vice versa. It’s good to keep limits.
Explore new TERRITORIES
Variety is the spice of life. Have sex EVERYWHERE. Kitchen top, sofa, shower, bath, car.
Just know the limits, like the public decency laws that forbid sex in public.
Chocolate, baby oil, candle wax, ice cream. Get down and diiiiiirty.
All edibles are good for where you want them or or you want to be licking. Body fluids aren’t the nicest of tastes, but chocolate is 🤤
Set a challenge – you buy a sex toy you want to try, and your partner does the same.
See what kind of present you each come home to 😏
Get some massage or baby oil out, and don’t be afraid to explore each other’s bodies.
Use your fingers to find erogenous zones and build up the tension.
So if you are the shy, quiet type this is a lovely way of connecting without having to feel under pressure.
Nothing wrong with just talking and saying what you want to try. Communicating what’s going wrong in your sex life and what’s going right. Ignite the passion again!