Hello my wonderful sex deviants!
As we all know the day of chocolate, flowers and unnecessary PDA is upon us. The day we singles dread because it seems like everyone is sucking face but us, so we lock ourselves away for the day with junk food and rom-coms.
Now Valentine’s day isn’t terrible and it can be a cute date night but if it’s your only date night you need to rethink your relationship. Personally, when I was with someone on Valentine’s day we just did our normal thing, binge watching shows and having some fun time during the boring bits. Valentine’s day shouldn’t be the only day you declare your love and affection and shower your partner with gifts unless, as a friend pointed out, you are poor as f**k and can only afford stuff on the rare occasion.
Also for the couples out there have some consideration for the singles and wait until you get home to grope each other. All my singles, by choice or not, go out with your other single friends, get each other gifts and chocolate, you could even buy your pets gifts if you’re like me and your friends are all couples up. Don’t worry it’s not as lonely as it sounds I really love my pets and am single on purpose *queue gasp*.
Believe it or not you don’t need a SO to complete you, don’t get me wrong there’s nothing wrong with it either. I just prefer the single life right now because well it’s cheaper and I’m too lazy for that right now.
Don’t forget Valentine’s Day is the day of love, it’s not exclusive to couples, remember to love yourself and anyone who is important in your life. Go to the spa or, if you can’t afford that, there are plenty of cheapy face masks and spa like products around. Do the whole sha-bang, run a bath, shave, exfoliate, slather your whole body in your favorite moisturiser or oil, get into your cosiest pyjamas. Do what you want, you don’t need a SO to celebrate Valentine’s Day, you just need a bit of love.
This has been the obligatory Valentine’s Day blog post.
Until next time,